An individual demonstrates verbal incontinence by speaking excessively without having 100 percent total attention control in his speech as a result of excessive nervousness in a given situation.
There are people who talk a lot on a regular basis, they are people who generally take the lead in conversations by talking a lot about themselves. However, there are also people who can suffer episodes of this type in a more timely manner.
Those who speak non-stop, do not process what they say well and hide behind spontaneity to justify words that many times may be out of place, "says Uruguayan psychologist Rosaura Lagos.
Thinking before speaking is very useful not only for one but for the rest of the environment. “Being measured and responsible for the sayings is essential to avoid giving a bad image or being stigmatized as a charlatan.
Silence is often a better answer. Take some time to respond. It is an exercise that can be learned to carry out and the results will surely be much better from the moment we become more discreet and respectful individuals, "explains the specialist.
Don't confuse verbiage with freedom of speech. “We are free to say everything we want as long as we express ourselves correctly in every way. Verbal communication is essential, but there are those who express their comments with great cruelty without any need.
Words said without any reflection are no longer valuable and can often even be hurtful. We must think before expressing ourselves and take into account that what we say can become counterproductive for other people, that is, we must deal with what we have said.
Those who simply chat nonstop often do not correctly process what they say and often call themselves "spontaneous", to justify their words that on more than one occasion are extremely out of place and out of place.
It is important, then, to think and reason before speaking. It is highly recommended for the exhibitor and his environment, in this way he avoids being recognized as a simple charlatan and radiates a bad image.
